Long Distance Love...Can it work??

Being in love means being together with your partner.. is it right?? But, what if your love one live miles apart?Can your survive?? Nowadays, many and more people travelling and working abroad, making a long distance relationship work is a task faced by many people. Perhaps you were based apart when you met, or you were living together and your partner was offered a once in a lifetime opportunity abroad. Each couple's circumstances are unique, but each share similar concerns, is the relationship worth the distance and how can we keep the love alive?

Making the decision
The first factor to consider is whether it is worth trying to make the long-distance relationship work. If at the start of a relationship, you don't live close to each other it's tough but not a big problem problem. If you truly care for each other, you'll keep loving and move mountains in order to eventually move closer.

However,if you already have a relationship in several years, and suddenly you need to separate,it may a danger sign. One of you may be creating physical distance in order to get emotional distance. Have a heart-to-heart and be honest to your partner.

Making it work
If you do want to be together, there is a lot you can do to make it work. Top of the list is that agony aunt favourite - communication. The less you see each other, the more you need to hear each other.

What you need to do is schedule regular telephone calls and stay in touch with emails, texts and letters. When you do make contact, don't just stick to love talk, but keep each other informed on the day-to-day aspects of your lives.

If one of you develops a new interest or hobby, the other should make an effort to be involved. It's not passion that ends long distance love, but usually plain loss of common interests.

do's and don'ts for the couple to make perfect proposal

Nearly one in 10 of all marriage proposals by a lovely couple are by women, and female characters are regularly seen popping the question on TV.

So, just as you don't have to wait until Leap Day to ask for your man's hand. But if you are going pop the question, stay cool with these essential dos and don'ts.

DO keep it casual. Men are freaked out by 'big talks' and OTT gestures. Standing on a table in a packed restaurant and shouting 'marry me!' may seem romantic to you, but most blokes would curl up in embarrassment at such a public proposal.

DO make like a spy and edge in casually. Sidle up while he's doing the washing up, put your chin on his shoulder and say: 'Hmmm, I want to keep you'.

DON'T assume that he knows what you're talking about. Men are slow to pick up on hints. If he's still looking blurr, look him in the eye and ask simply: 'Would you marry me?'

DO remember that men are weaker after good food and great sex. Cook him a fabulous dinner, take him to bed and mention marriage in the cuddly afterglow.

DON'T assume that marriage will fix a failing or stale relationship. A wedding may give things a boost, but reality will bite back as soon as the corks are popped.

DON'T get down on one knee. You'll look like you're begging, and he'll be able to see up your skirt.

DO it when he's high on life. A friend got a 'yes, YES!' after reuniting with her boyfriend after he'd been to a sunny music festival.

But DON'T do it when he's just been promoted at work, bought a hot new motor or won the lottery. It'll just look like you're after his money.

DON'T propose to someone you've known only a few months. You're still in the honeymoon phase, where you're full of butterflies and blind to each other's faults.

DO turn the situation around and make him do it. If you're sure of your relationship and of his commitment to you, he'll probably be grateful for the push!

If all else fails, DO wait until Leap Day itself. When the Leap Day proposal tradition was introduced by Scottish law in 1288, men who said 'no' were fined, with penalties including having to buy a silk dress. So if you don't get your man, at least he'll owe you a posh frock.

Secret of happiest couple in the world

The meaning of love

Love is not about what you take or what you get. Love is about the beneficences you give with nothing to lose. Just give away without hoping in return. If you love, you should happy when you give.

Practice your love

With love, you can be a happy couple. If you want to be a happy couple, you should love yourself, your couple, & your God. Here are some of the love concept:

1. Love yourself

Love your self first before you love somebody else. Love yourself, and you will do & take all the good thing for you. And also, you will leave anything that useless for you.

2. Love Your Couple

If you love your couple, think about what you should do to give the best for your couple & family. If your couple hurt you, ask your self first, what did you do that make your couple hurt you? Then, ask your self, what should you do to solve this problem?

3. Love Your God

Realize that you & your couple is only a human being who can become different & die. For example, now, he is handsome, in the future, he becomes an old man. Now, he is alive, in the future, he becomes a dead man. Don't worry about that. I bring a good news for you who have a God. God have created anything pair. He has created man, He also created woman. He has brought you to life, He will also bring you to dead. So, don't be worry, He have create anything pair for you. You should love your God above all. God bless you.

7 things he won't know he's doing wrong

Scientifically,male and female brains are work in a different ways.In fact,get the male perspective on those mistakes only men could make it.

Some girls probably noticed by now that men are not a such perfect human being. In fact, it can sometimes seem that men are huge, great blobs of imperfection. In women's eyes men regularly do things wrong and are too lazy to do anything about it.

#1 . Being abrupt on the telephone. Men see the phone as a means of communication, nothing more. A typical male telephone conversation goes as follows: 'Drink in the pub tonight?' 'What time?' 'Seven-thirty?' . Men do their talking in person.However,women enjoy the process of communication rather than just its result, so want to prolong the call, bonding a little more.

2. Offering solutions when you just want him to listen. If you've got a problem you'll want to sit down and talk about it with your man, approaching it from different angles. But men don't do 'different angles'. The only angle they know is head-on. He thinks he's helping. Explain that you appreciate his desire to assist, but all you want him to do is sympathise as you talk around the problem in your own way.

3. Being silent when he's considering his own problems.When your man has a worry, he keeps it to himself, trying to solve it quickly, not wanting to bother you. Men are much more comfortable with silence than women.

4. Refusing to ask for directions when you're lost. Ever since the first caveman failed to bag a wildebeest for Mrs Caveman's dinner, men have seen failure as a threat to their relationship. They think that if they admit to making a mistake, you'll stop loving them.

5. Looking at other women. Men's peripheral vision isn't as good as women's. That's why when you're walking down the street together and a good-looking woman passes, your man will turn his head to look at her.

6. Making arrangements in front of people. 'Mind if I go to the football with Dave next Saturday?' he asks, forgetting that you've arranged to visit your mother that day. The trouble is, he asks you when Dave's there. He expects you to be honest. Because that's what he would do.

7. Giving vague responses about what he's been up to. When you ask him how his day was, he replies, 'Not bad'. And that's precisely what he means: it wasn't great, but it wasn't bad. He has nothing to report, so he doesn't report anything.Your man doesn't have the same need for details as you do. So he doesn't realise that without them you can feel left out.

So girl,watch your boyfriend now!! especially for the item no 5!!!