Thursday, January 8, 2009

7 things he won't know he's doing wrong

Scientifically,male and female brains are work in a different ways.In fact,get the male perspective on those mistakes only men could make it.

Some girls probably noticed by now that men are not a such perfect human being. In fact, it can sometimes seem that men are huge, great blobs of imperfection. In women's eyes men regularly do things wrong and are too lazy to do anything about it.

#1 . Being abrupt on the telephone. Men see the phone as a means of communication, nothing more. A typical male telephone conversation goes as follows: 'Drink in the pub tonight?' 'What time?' 'Seven-thirty?' . Men do their talking in person.However,women enjoy the process of communication rather than just its result, so want to prolong the call, bonding a little more.

2. Offering solutions when you just want him to listen. If you've got a problem you'll want to sit down and talk about it with your man, approaching it from different angles. But men don't do 'different angles'. The only angle they know is head-on. He thinks he's helping. Explain that you appreciate his desire to assist, but all you want him to do is sympathise as you talk around the problem in your own way.

3. Being silent when he's considering his own problems.When your man has a worry, he keeps it to himself, trying to solve it quickly, not wanting to bother you. Men are much more comfortable with silence than women.

4. Refusing to ask for directions when you're lost. Ever since the first caveman failed to bag a wildebeest for Mrs Caveman's dinner, men have seen failure as a threat to their relationship. They think that if they admit to making a mistake, you'll stop loving them.

5. Looking at other women. Men's peripheral vision isn't as good as women's. That's why when you're walking down the street together and a good-looking woman passes, your man will turn his head to look at her.


6. Making arrangements in front of people. 'Mind if I go to the football with Dave next Saturday?' he asks, forgetting that you've arranged to visit your mother that day. The trouble is, he asks you when Dave's there. He expects you to be honest. Because that's what he would do.

7. Giving vague responses about what he's been up to. When you ask him how his day was, he replies, 'Not bad'. And that's precisely what he means: it wasn't great, but it wasn't bad. He has nothing to report, so he doesn't report anything.Your man doesn't have the same need for details as you do. So he doesn't realise that without them you can feel left out.

So girl,watch your boyfriend now!! especially for the item no 5!!!

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