Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Couples and cash,can cause crisis

Money,the most important thing nowaday.For a couples,managing a money is very important.Even you're couple with someone,you still need to entertain your social life,cleaning,visiting parents and so on.

If you think it doesn't matter, think again. Money is cited as one of the most common reasons for break-up. Financial dilemmas can highlight a range of relationship problems.

The household budget and joint accounts can be testing, from how much to contribute and dividing it fairly to what the money is spent on. How do you ensure neither party feels it's unfair? The joint account was used for bills and food shopping. If you're living together, it's a partnership that should not disadvantage one person.

Not everyone is able to 'place' money within a relationship. 'Money is also about our ability to share, compromise, negotiate and commit to another person. If one person behaves differently, it can cause huge problems. Ensure conversations are not just about money, but about the feelings they evoke. 'Said the relationship expert Paula Hall.

On the other side,men always feel money is their domain but what do you do when things get out of hand? As one woman discovered, it's not always easy.

Debt might damage your credit rating and the the worst thing it can also damage your relationship. In our live,if can we must try a best to avoid debt.

We're working, but every penny is going towards debts, household costs and mortgage. We've been through a spate of household disasters and are at a point where we're barely talking to each other because every conversation revolves around trying to pay another bill.

Not talking can make things worse, but when can you talk money as a couple? Before it gets too late, for starters...

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